This is a facinating thread for sooooo many reasons. But let us think about this. What things are there for young people in most communities (especially rural communities):
- Going around to each other's homes (well, a number of adults sadly do not always welcome young people in with open arms - my mom did, my dad did not)
- Sports clubs - sadly not often a Friday or Saturday Evening Activity, same with performing arts groups (When I was in Bedfordshire Youth Theatre, it was a midweek and Saturday morning activitity).
- Cadet Corps, Scout Movements etc. - there is a stigma sadly for people attending these (I was a proud Sea Cadet, but many of my friends dropped out because of either the commitment or stigma).
- Activities that are expensive and require transportation such as the cinema, bowling etc.
There is little left.
But working with young people on the weekends (when real issues around family and relationship stability can crop up), is lacking in so many areas. Discos don't happen so often due to the concerns and risks. It is no wonder some young people go down a negative pathway that could be avoided.
I have really fond memories of Michael Jackson dance offs in my local Youth club as a lad, and my wife remembers a special trip to see a new band with that cute kid Robbie, as well as Gary, Jason, Marc and co at the local leisure centre.
My most touching experience as a teen volunteer in Student Community Action was youth work, where we ran a wargames and fantasy role play society on Saturdays and a film night on the Saturday Night. The girls wanted to act, so we also had a tribute to Grease Drama project on a Friday night. During that year of those projects, teenage pregnancy, A&E admissions and offending behaviours went down. And the best thing is, I bumped into a young man in the pub when I went to a college reunion a few years ago. He ran up to me, hugged me, and asked to buy me a drink. When I realised it was one of the young people I worked with, I was amazed. He insisted on buying me a drink as a thank you. He said those weekend activities kept him off the streets, he drank and got stoned less, and it led to him getting a job on a building site. When I met him, he was actually the assistant site manager, had a wife and 2 kids (both born a couple of years after the wedding).
To me, that is the reason for weekend services. We are here for our customers and to respond to their needs. Weekends tend to be when the work is needed the most, particularly for those on the cusp. I gladly gave up my weekends then, and I do occassionally now (in a voluntary capacity now that I am no longer on the front line).