Hi Iftikhar,
I was tempted to just dismiss this initially as the responses seem to have been all cut and pasted from other posts. Indeed its ironic that the response to David McCullough request for less cutting and pasting elicited some more cutting and pasting.
However, to look at a couple of points...there was a couple of things that looked worth questioning, (or maybe not as was suggested there doesn't seem much chance of any listening happening.) Your intitial point about forced marraiges and honour killings begins by saying that it is not a muslim practice, and then make the point that "the tragedy of forced marraige and honour killing could have been avoided if the poor girls were educated in a single sex state funded Muslims chools by female Muslim teachers". Can you clarify? Do you mean that Muslim girls are subject to this tragedy cause of because they aren't getting what you consider to be a good education? And that the fault lies with the eduation system...girls are being forced into marraige or killed because they are poorly educated? No personal responsibility...all the fault of the system?
In terms of being torn between 2 cultures...I can empthise with that, but perhaps culture and contact with western culture particularly happens outside of school also? Examples being with neighbours, friends, by reading newspapers, watching TV, listening to radio, looking at the internet?
Surely to avoid confusement young people and old, need to have an understanding of both cultures not just a knowledge of the language, but a solid understaning of the world in which they live, so that they can readily identify those elements they dislike and will know to avoid, and of course enjoy and find useful and enlightening, and will seek to interact with. To state that a single faith school, and minimal contact with western youngsters will strengthen community cohesion seems optimistic at best. Surely the best that can happen is that its neutral and neither strenghtens or weakens, as its opted out of the part that adds the cohesiveness? Maybe you could elaborate?
There are other parts of your post that could bear dissecting. Fore example your post seems to suggest that all the negative practices or experiences such as racism, homsexuality or anti-social behaviour are not to be found in the Muslim community, but I get the impression that's not a discussion you could ever see another side to.
Apologies if I've misunderstood, but I'm to be corrected.